“Fapa fim cu a pa in nun a sim tikah a ngai; Asinain mi hngal cun ka sual ngai a ti dah lo.”
“Kan nunnak ih buainak kan tonmi pawl hi ziangruangah ti hawl sehla, “Pakhat le pakhat kan thusimmi tha te ih kan ngai awk lonak ruangah a si.” – Michael Pi Nichols
Midang ih thu thate ih ngai lo timi cu ziang a si? (poor listener)
- Midang ih thu hnak in kan mah ih thu kan rak ruat ciamco sawn. Instead of focusing on other people, we focus on ourselves and our own needs.
§ A tawi zawng cun, “ziang siar lo, ih peh” = disregard and proceed.”
§ E.g. Mi pakhat in Florida ih khual a tlawnnak thu in sim. A khual tlawn a nuam maw nuam lo ti sut sawn lo in, Florida ka duh le duh lo thu kan sim theu.
§ E.g. Mi pakhat in a thil tuah theimi thu in sim. In sim rero lai ah/ theh hlan ah, kan mah ih thil ti theimi thu kan sim ve ciamco.
- ATU ih thil thu hnak in a hlan ih thu ah kha thupi sawn ih ret.
§ Pa Sen: A nih cu a ttong khal le cu vek thu a sim ko ding cu ti in ruat cia ih a thu ngai duh lo.
§ Nu Mek: A nih cu ziang thu tha hman a suahpi dah lo ti in ttongnak caan khal pe duh lo.
Midang ih thu thate ih ngai tu pawl ih um daan (good listener)
1. Thungai ding in timtuah cia. A thusimmi ka ngai ding, thil dang thu ka ruat lo ding ti ih thu thluknak neih.
2. Na thu sim ka lo ngai timi kha theih ter aw. A mit zoh aw. Na lu sut aw. Yes, Right, I understand, I didn’t kbnow that, I see tivek ti aw. A simmi khan a theih daan in sim sal aw la cumi kha na ti duhmi a si maw tiah sut sal aw.
3. Thusimtu kha bawm aw. Thusim tu in a thusimmi le a ruahmi fiang sin ding in, bawm. Cucu ziang ti in na ruat? (How do you feel about this? What are the alternatives? What do you think would help?”)
§ Nangmai theih duhmi theihnak hnak in a ttongtu in a ttongmi fiang sin ding in bom hi a thu tiah ruat aw.
§ Asinan, a ttongtu in na ttong ding a duh sawn le lawngah tong aw. Ruahnak pe aw.
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