Ziangruangah Pathian in Thitumnak A Rak Tuah?

by San No Thuan

Thuhram thawhnak

Zo in thitumnak a rak tuah?

·      Pathian ih in tuah sakmi le in pekmi a si. Minung ih tuahmi a si lo.

·      Seem 2:18

o   “Cun Bawipa Pathian in, “Minung hi amah lawngih a um ding cu a rem lo; amah bawmtu ah rualpi ka tuahsak ding,” a ti.

o   Cutin Adam ih hnakruh sung in Eve a tuah.

·      A hmaisabik thitumnak cu Pathian in Eden dum sungah a tuah.

·      Thitumnak timi cu Pathian thluasuah/laksawng a si. Ziangruangah a rak tuah timi kha phunthum in sim ka duh.

Ziangruangah Pathian in thitumnak in tuahsak?

1.     Bawmtu le thazaang petu rualpi tha nei dingah (for our companionship to have mutual help and encouragement – to enjoy phileo love)

a.     Seem 2:18 … Amah lawng um a tha lo. Amah bawmtu rualpi ka tuah sak ding.  

b.     Na nupi /pasal ih rualpi tha bik na si maw?

c.      Nangmah kha a rualpi tha bik ah si aw (Be the best friend for your partner).

d.     Rualpi tha cun, tul caan ah mi a bawm ih, riahsiat le thanau caan ah thazaang mi a pe. Ziangkim thu ron aw tein thil an tuah.

e.     Rom 12:9-13

9Duhdawtnak kan ti tikah thinlung taktak thawn duhdawt ding a si. A ṭha lomi cu hua uhla a ṭhami kha kai hnget uh. 10Khristian unau nan si ruangah pakhat le pakhat sunsak awzet tein duhdaw aw ton uh. Pakhat le pakhat hmaizah awknak thiam uh. 11 Zaangzel hlah uh; napi in hnaṭuan uh. Nan thinlung zate pe in Bawipa ih hna cu ṭuan uh. 12Nan beiseinak in nan lung lo awiter seh; harsatnak nan ton tikah thinsau in um uh; cat loin thlacam uh. 13A tlasam mi Khristian unau pawl thawn nan neihmi kha hlawm aw uh. Cule mikhual pawl hrangah nan saangka ong uh.

2.     Lungawi te in innsaang nuam dintu dingah (designed for pleasure and being a family: to enjoy eros love)

a.     Nuam tlaang dingah: Seem 2:24-25 … pum khat ah an cang, lawngfang kheh in an um nan, ningzah an thei lo.

b.     Telefa thawn innsang nuam si dingah: Seem 1:28 – “And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it . . .”

c.      Duhdawtnak ah nupa vek ih duhdawt awknak cu tthen khat te lawng a si. A thupi bik sung ih pakhat lawng a si. Pathian ih thluasuah pekmi a si. Asinan, marriage hnu ih neih dingmi ah Pathian ih a retmi a si.

d.     Nu le pa pawlawknak cu tappi meisa vek a si. Tappi meisa khi tappi ah re lo in, cuih thingthu bul kha hmun dang ih na ret ahcun, na inn a kaang theh ding. Cuvek in, Eros love hi duhdawtnak fek tertu ah na ruat ih hmun kip ah na ret ahcun, na nunnak na buai ding.

3.     Jesuh Khrih nunnak lang ter tu dingah (to reflect Christ: to reflect agape love – the love of sacrificial commitment).

a.     Duhdawtnak taktak timi cu ziangvek a si?

b.     Jesuh Khrih ih duhdawtnak ah kan hmu thei = Agape love.

·      Efe 5:22-33 .. Khrih ih a Kawhhran a duhdawt vek in nan duhdawt aw pei. Agape love a si.

c.      Agape love - is an act of will – a conscious decision to do what is best for the other person instead of ourselves)

·      Keimaih hrang hnak in a hrangah thil tha bik ka tuah sak ringring ding timi thinlung thencahnak a si. 

·      A uk in a uk lo ih, an zoh thim ding in riantu (serve) a tuan sawn (MK 10:45).

·      “Fall in love” a silo.  Midang a that caan ih duhdawknak feeling menmen a si lo. Agape love is not generated by feeling.  

·      “Walk in love” a si.  Agape love is a deliberate choice to love others. Midang hrang thatnak kha ziangvek an si khal le ka tuah ding ti ih duhhrilnak neih khi a si.  

Ziangruangah innsang ah buainak a suak? Basic problem

A tampi ding nan, a hrampi bik cu: maih zawn lawng ruahnak in thok (selfishness)

d.     Phili 2:3-4 … midang in an hrangih thupi tiah an timi hmuhzia thiam uh.

e.     Duhdawtnak ih letlam cu huatnak ti lawng a si lo. Maih zawn lawng ruahnak a si.

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Thunetnak:

Christian thitumnak timi cu a tanglam ih thu pathum hi Pathian hmai le mipi hmai ah tuah ding in ka thinlung ka thencat (commitment) ka nei ti ih thu kam awk khi a si.

1.     Na rualpi tha ka si ding (Rom 12:9-13)

2.     Innsang nuam ka lo din pi ding (Seem 2:24-25, Seem 1:28)

3.     Khrih ih I duhdawt vek in na hrangah ziangkim a tha bik in ka tuan ding (Efe 5:22-33) ti ih thukam hi a si.

Matt 19:6 … Pathian ih a kom zomi, zokhal in then hlah hngai seh tiah a tinak a si.